Is it hopeless?





I'm not giving up on this!





Okay.... here's the deal. One of my friends, I've known her all my life. I love her to death like she's my own family. She and her girlfriend just broke up (this was the first girl she ever fell in love with) and she's losing herself over this whole thing.





She keeps saying "I only want her, we were meant to be! I love her and she's the only one I want to be with!" She's making like its the end of the world.




I keep telling her that it's not the end of the world. I know how it feels to have loved and lost, and that she is lucky that she had treated her right instead of abusing her, raping her, using her, ETC.






She still wont realize.





Yes... I have been there before. I did have a time like that when I and my first love broke up. Though he was a fucking deuchebag and ruined my life, I still loved him and was really down for a while after we broke up. But we were never meant to be. I learned in time that we definitely were not meant to be and he just needs to go to hell.






I keep telling her that everything will be fine, she will get over her, she will move on. It's life, shit happens you just have to learn to take it. Life has its ups its downs, goods and bads, greats and terribles. its just a big roller coaster, you have to just ride.





She wont believe me. And I understand completely, but I just want to make her realize so she doesn't do anything. She's like me in many ways, she takes things VERY hard, she doesn't like to let go, she finds it hard to see what is to come instead of what has passed.





I've gotten past that, and I know she can to, and I'm trying so hard. I'm not going to give up. I want her to know how it feels to just let things go and move on.






But now.... at this point...... I have no clue what I should do.....